relations

u meet someone..
u find 'em attractive..
u create a image of the perfect person for you and start putting that person in your "perfect person" 's shoes..
u think u r in love..
even tell that person that u r falling for 'em..
and if u r lucky they say yes and u r the happiest person in the world..
till the illusion shatters..
u go on some dates..
u begin to know things about them
and start comparing that to the person of your dreams
you start compromising "what if she is li'l different than what i thought still I love her" till this reassurance stops working
as you find out that she is totally different that what you thought her to be..
then you try to get out..
but now you are trapped for eternity..
u start fight
start saying that the love is gone, fellings are gone
actually feelings were never there..

and that's how you define modern relationship :)